Family, friends gather for birthday

It was a humid day, but under the shelter of the trees and with a nice easy breeze blowing through, guests at Raoul Cayer’s 85th birthday felt right at home.
Raoul’s daughter, Julie Loney, with part of the families involved, arranged everything for the Sunday afternoon party, which became a cheerful celebration.
And the guest of honour loved every minute of it as relatives, neighbours, and friends gathered to wish him best wishes for many more healthy years to come.
As I watched the proceedings unveil, Raoul became more comfortable with a big grin, getting into a talkative role.
There was plenty of food, too. Dainties, fresh fruit, and refreshments all afternoon to go around. To quench your thirst, the coffee/tea and punch never ran out (someone made sure of that).
There were three generation birthdays reflected. First, Raoul was born on his father’s birthday while grandson, Paul Loney, was born on Raoul’s birthday, which made this occasion more memorable and meaningful.
There was, however, one setback. Daughter Della and her husband, Larry Cocquyt, of Melita could not make it to the festivities due to his illness.
During the afternoon gathering, Emo Coun. Ken Fisher presented Raoul with a plaque, congratulating him on behalf of the Township of Emo Municipality. Scores of congratulatory cards also were received.
The party then continued throughout the evening with a family supper at the residence.
As far as I can remember, Raoul was always community-minded, providing help where required and assisting when possible. He has served the community well, including as a member of the Emo centennial committee.
With some help from others, he sculpted out a boat, which resembled the one which used to travel up the Rainy River to Kenora, to commemorate Emo’s 100th birthday—a great masterpiece.
Raoul also held the position of president of the Emo curling club at one time.
He had an interest in old cars as a hobby, restoring them into running condition. And a stock car race driver he was (a competitor all the way) and loved playing cards.
For the guests to scan through, there were two albums of family pictures which told Raoul’s life in a nutshell. Friendly and courteous, a happy-go-lucky fellow, he always drew interest in our community.
He comes from the Joseph Cayer family of Vassar.
Cayer purchased the Esso Service which was operated by David Kettner, who left here for the United States to warmer climate due to illness. In 1983, he retired from Raoul’s Service Station, which then was purchased by David Goodman and re-named Borderland Esso.
Since then the Esso station has been remodelled, with a grand opening slated for next month.