Condolences for Canadian terror victim

The Canadian Press
Steve Hennigar

Messages of sorrow and condolence have been pouring in following the death of a Canadian woman killed in Saturday’s terror attack in the heart of London.
Christine Archibald, 30, was enjoying a warm spring night with her fiancé, Tyler Ferguson, when she was struck by a speeding van that plowed into people strolling on London Bridge.
Archibald was a social worker before moving to Europe to be with her fiancé.
She had attended Calgary’s Mount Royal University, where one of her teachers described her as an “academically strong” student who really found a home in her field–working with homeless people.
Archibald’s family, who live in Castlegar, B.C., released a statement yesterday through the Canadian government.
“She had room in her heart for everyone, and believed strongly that every person was to be valued and respected,” the statement said.
“She would have had no understanding of the callous cruelty that caused her death.”
The family asked that people honour her memory by making the community a better place.
“Volunteer your time and labour or donate to a homeless shelter,” the statement said.
“Tell them Chrissy sent you.”
On Twitter, people using the hashtag #Chrissysentme expressed their sadness for the family’s loss, but many also said they were inspired by the call for meaningful action.
“In darkness we have a choice: to make the world a better place or let hate win,” said one tweet.
“Chrissy Archibald’s family chose the former.”
Some pledged to make donations to shelters, soup kitchens, and other community groups.
“We have made a donation to our community food bank in honour of Christine Archibald,” said one tweet.
“I don’t know what else to say except: #Chrissysentme.”
Peter Choate, an assistant professor of social work at Mount Royal University, said he’s been receiving a steady flow of tweets, texts, and Facebook messages from colleagues, past alumni, and even current students, reaching out to express their sorrow.
“She exemplified what matters to us in social work, and that’s the capacity to see the challenging circumstances that someone finds themselves in and be prepared to work with them to cope as best they can with life’s circumstances,” he remarked.
“It’s a tough one, and you know, being a social worker myself, I know what kind of trauma and what kind of life-changing event this is because I’ve worked with people who’ve experienced this, and this changes the lives of those people–not just Christine’s family but all the families who’ve been affected by this,” he added.
“This is a day they’ll never forget.”
Choate acknowledged people traumatized by such events face an uphill emotional struggle–one that can last for years–but he has some professional advice for those trying to cope.
“What’s important for people who go through this kind of trauma is to stay connected, to talk and be aware of what you’re feeling and to be honest about it, and to cry,” he said.
“And if you want to scream at the top of your lungs, scream at the top of your lungs.”
Archibald’s fiancé had been walking a few steps ahead of her and escaped physical injury, but suffered deep emotional wounds, his siblings said in a Facebook post.
“Last night in London, my baby brother lost the love of his life on the London Bridge,” wrote Cassie Ferguson Rowe.
“In a split second, his entire life was ripped away from him.”