Time to talk

Dear editor:
If you follow the headlines, you know that child sexual abuse happens. It happens often and close to home.
This reality can be overwhelming, but it’s important to remember that child sexual abuse can be prevented when we all play our part.
April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month and year communities across the world are standing up for child sexual abuse prevention by proclaiming “It’s time . . . to talk about it!”
All adults have a role in child sexual abuse prevention, and this year’s campaign encourages individuals and communities to support healthy childhood sexual development by talking early, talking often, and taking action.
By learning and talking about healthy childhood sexual development, adults are able to support the children in their lives. When adults support age-appropriate behaviours, model healthy boundaries, and speak up to other adults, they are an ally to prevention.
It’s also our job to respect children, model healthy behaviours and boundaries, and confront adults when they act in ways that are not appropriate.
There often is silence and discomfort when it comes to the discussion of sexual development. It’s important to understand that this is a normal experience we all share.
By opening up communication, sharing age-appropriate information with children, and educating one another—we are taking steps toward a safer community.
Choose to start the conversation about healthy childhood sexual development. Whether you are a parent, educator, or community member, it’s time for you to start talking early and often to support an environment where children are safe.
It’s time . . . to talk about it!
In honour of Sexual Assault Awareness Month, Friends Against Abuse, a victim service agency in International Falls, presents “Kind-Hearted Woman,” a local survivor’s journey to healing.
Robin Poor Bear, a 32-year-old divorced single mother and Oglala Sioux woman, struggles to raise her two children, further her education, and heal herself from the wounds of sexual abuse she suffered as a child.
Her incredible story is featured in a PBS documentary, entitled “Kind-Hearted Woman,” which aired on April 1-2.
Please join us on Thursday, April 25 from 5:30-7:30 p.m. in the dining room at the Backus Community Center in International Falls. You are invited to hear Robin speak about her inspiring journey and about the film.
Dinner is provided and will be served at 5:30 p.m. We look forward to seeing you there!
(Signed),
LeeAnn Meer
Executive Director,
Friends Against Abuse
1-218-285-7220